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Military Spouse Appreciation BlogHop

Laura — Fri, 11 May 2012 17:56:32 +0000

Welcome visitors from the Military Spouse Appreciation Bloghop! I’m happy to have you! If you’re not familiar with this bloghop, it is for Military Spouses and takes place on Military Spouse Appreciation Day (today!) hosted by Riding the Roller Coaster and Household 6 Diva. However, you don’t have to be a military spouse to show your support! If you’d like to participate, just go write yourself an intro post, sign the Linky, then join the fun by surfing some lovely new blogs! Also be sure to post a button in your sidebar to be eligible for one of the wonderful sponsored giveaway items!

I’m Laura and I’m wife to Michael. Michael is a Master Sergeant in the Air Force. I have been married to Michael for his entire 12 year military career which began in 2000. Our journey started before 9/11 and before the recent war situation. These last 12 years have definitely been an ever changing, exciting and sometimes lonely experience. We are currently enduring a deployment that will bring him home in the early part of this summer. I have never been more proud of someone as I am of Michael’s accomplishments!

I’m joining in this bloghop because I feel that community is incredibly important and valuable, especially in the life of a military spouse. I want to say THANK YOU to those of you on this very important and like-no-other journey of being a military spouse. You (yes YOU) are valued and appreciated!

Michael and I have three amazing children. They are Jacob (8), Eli (turning 6 in 2 weeks) and Rachael (3). We were married in 2000, just 11 short days before he left for BMT. We’ve survived several deployments and we’re on our 4th duty station (we are currently at Wright-Patterson AFB in Dayton, Ohio). I am a stay-at-home, homeschooling mom and count it a blessing every day to be able to spend these precious years with our children. Here on the blog, you’ll find me posting about military life, homeschooling, homemaking, cooking, baking, parenting, natural living, real food eating and living out our faith and belief that our lives should be God directed and Christ centered.

During our last deployment, I wrote a series on Preparing for Deployment, if you’re in that season of military life, I encourage you to have a look at it.

I hope you’ll visit more of the lovely spouses who have joined the bloghop and leave them some love in their comments.

You are welcome to subscribe to my blog for email or RSS updates. I am also on Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest and Instagram (user @LauraVenning).

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Deployment blues

Laura — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 01:59:19 +0000

Easter 2012

I had lofty goals for this deployment. Things I wanted to do with this blog (ie – reviving it!) and available opportunities that I wanted to get involved in, but to say that my life has taken a different route would be an understatement. I’ve hardly posted anything here since Michael left and it doesn’t really seem like that’s going to change anytime soon.

For a variety of reasons, this deployment has been the most difficult of the ones we’ve endured. Please understand that I’m not really complaining – this is the life we’ve chosen and I’m well aware of and happy with that. God has this in His control and for that security, I’m incredibly grateful.

I wish I had adequate words to convey to you what’s going on in my head, how I’m feeling and what’s causing it, but I just don’t. In part, because I’m not completely clear on the whole ordeal, but I’m otherwise simply unable to convey my thoughts (or collect them, if I’m honest).

I love my children dearly and am incredibly blessed to not only be able to stay home with them, but also educate them at home and I really don’t want this to be taken then wrong way, but it’s HARD work to be the sole person with your kids (and them with you) 98-ish% percent of the time. Yes, I have baby sitters and friends who help out (and it is such a wonderful blessing!), but there’s truly nothing like the Godly example of a dad who loves to be with his children and who also loves to be a blessing to his wife and help her out daily.

Don’t mistake this comment, I am not, in any way, saying that I miss my husband based solely upon how much help he is when he is home. That is not even remotely true, because there are a million other reasons, but I do, in fact, miss the help.

Dear readers, would you please keep me in your prayers? It would be immensely appreciated.

Also, please pardon the dust that might continue to settle on this blog as I continue in this deployment journey. I am still around on Facebook, Twitter and now on Instagram (I’m LauraVenning), sharing small snippets of life along the way – feel free to follow me on one of those platforms!

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On God’s amazing providence and faithfulness

Laura — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 18:33:14 +0000

Have you ever stopped to really ponder God’s amazing providence in your life? I’m not talking about recognizing and counting the gifts">counting the gifts (though I would highly recommend doing that, as well) God has placed in our every day lives, but the true working out of the details that He orchestrates on so many occasions – and that many of us take for granted. You certainly don’t have to have had an “easy” life or have had things run smoothly to be able to sit back and truly reflect on His providence in your life.

I have a story I’d like to tell you. A story of truly recognizing God’s providence and faithfulness in my life and of having an awakening to the sense of true love and attentiveness He has for me (and YOU). Also, I don’t tell short stories, I just don’t know how! My apologies in advance, but it’s worth the read if you have time.

Michael was originally scheduled to deploy this past Thanksgiving weekend. As the middle of October approached, we had come to the place where we were “ready”. Our hearts were ready, our lives were ready, the children were prepared. However, around October 15, Michael received notification that his deployment tasking had been given to someone else (for reasons that only make sense to military personnel) and he was left with no tasked job. I was a bit upset at this news due to being ready to get it started so that it could be over sooner. I was not upset about the fact he no longer had to be in Afghanistan! However, none of that meant he was in the clear, what it meant was that another tasking would most assuredly come sometime before his deployment window ended in May. There was just no way to know when or where until he actually received the notification. So we were back to waiting while he continued in his regular duties in his squadron here.

On October 22, just a few days after the cancellation of the deployment, I received a message from my most dear girlfriend (seriously, we’ve been besties since kindergarten – that’s 25 years) that her brother, Thomas, who was living in Australia at the time, had been killed in a diving accident earlier that day. This unexpected tragedy broke my heart for my dear friend and her family. You see, they weren’t just her family, they were like a second family to me. Our two families had been friends for many years, her parents treated me like an extension of their own family. Thomas cared for and treated me as another sister (I could tell countless stories of the “brotherly love” he showered upon us both!). There was almost no choice, I absolutely had to pack up the children and head to Florida to be with my “other family.” So, with Michael’s blessing, 2 days later that is what I did.

I tell you this story not to sadden you, but to point you to the realization I had on my long drive to Florida.

Sunset memorial service on the beach

You see, Michael wasn’t only scheduled to deploy around Thanksgiving, he was also scheduled for a 12 day mandatory pre-deployment training in New Jersey. That would have had him leaving around November 8 and not returning home until the 20th and then leaving again on the 26th. Had that deployment not been cancelled I might not have been able to make that trip to Florida (which, looking back on, was absolutely necessary) because the memorials ended up not taking place until November 4 & 5th. So, in essence, we would have missed an additional 4-5 weeks with Michael and only have had 5 days with him between the end October and the end of November, before he went to Afghanistan.

Do you see how God worked out those details so perfectly?? Yes, I was upset about the deployment having been cancelled, but it took me hardly any time to figure out why it worked out that way once I received the news of my friend’s passing.

* Of note: I don’t think it’s any coincidence that we home educate our children and that home education is portable and flexible.

* Another note: If you’re familiar with other branches of the military, I’m sure you know that in most cases they deploy as large units (and there is a lot of secrecy as to the details of the traveling/tasking [we call that OPSEC - Operational Security]). All traveling together to and from the deployment location and mostly remaining together during their tour. Though this does happen in the Air Force, it isn’t as common. In the two vastly different career fields Michael has held during his service, deployments are individually tasked. Meaning, he flies alone on a commercial flight until he reaches the east coast, at which time he joins the hundreds of others waiting for a military charter flight to the same general area. This also means we are allowed to see him off at the gate for his flight and this is where we say our official goodbye.

I also have another story to share, but I’ll wait until another day. It’s just as awesome, happened incredibly recently and has several seemingly tiny and insignificant events that transpired to make one major event doable for us.

Have you taken the time to savor the details of life that God orchestrates on our behalf? I would love to hear about how you’re recognizing God’s hand in your life.

This post is linked to Finer Things Friday.

* Disclaimer – this post contains affiliate links. I will receive a commission from any purchases made through the above link.

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Opening up my mama heart

Laura — Mon, 12 Mar 2012 10:22:23 +0000

I have a confession: I’m struggling with this parenting gig.

Most of the time Eli (almost 6) has on a very tough exterior that’s incredibly heard to break into. On the outside he’s rough and tumble, strong willed and at times, wildly unpredictable. So far, parenting him has been one of the biggest challenges I’ve faced in life.

I’m pleased to say he’s come a long way in the last two years, but honestly, there are still times when I really just don’t know how I’m going to make it another minute with him.

I fail countless times each day at living a Christ-like example, because I allow him to frustrate me, in turn, I’m not teaching him how to love unconditionally or extend grace to others. The fear of failing to instill in him the immense importance of his need for a Savior is a huge guilt.

I see myself in him, in how he reacts, in how he treats his siblings and I’m ashamed. Ashamed because I’m failing someone I love SO much.

I pray so often that God will lead us both to the other side of this unscathed.

I am learning (and repenting and asking for forgiveness a lot) and so is he, it’s just so much slower than I’d like.

I wonder how many times God looks at us and says something like that “why can’t she just get ____ already?” You know it’s like that, right? He holds our hand; picks us up; dusts us off; disciplines us, if necessary; and then encourages us to do better. In so many ways, in our walk with Christ, we are truly like young children who have to learn the same lesson eleventy bajillion times before it finally clicks.

Do you need some encouragement? Let me know in the comments, I’d love to add you to my prayer list.

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Homemade chicken stock – the easy way.

Laura — Mon, 23 Jan 2012 03:50:00 +0000

We love chicken around here and I love making one chicken go as far as possible.

My favorite and super easy way to cook a whole chicken is in the crockpot. It’s so simple and so delicious. You throw the chicken in (breast side down), season and put on low for 6-8 hours. Really, what could be simpler?

So, in keeping with stretching that chicken as far as it can possibly go, I make chicken broth/stock from it. And I do it the easy way, also!

Note: this is usually done just after dinner since I’ve cooked the chicken to have some for dinner.

Once I remove the chicken from the crockpot, I let it cool until it is manageable, then get to work separating it. I remove all the good meat (to freeze), then put EVERYTHING (skin, giblets, bones, etc.) back into the crockpot with whatever liquid the chicken has already given off. I then chop an onion, 2-3 celery stalks and 2-3 carrots and throw them in (you don’t have to bother peeling the veggies since it will all be strained out later). Add enough COLD water to fill my pot about 1/2″ from the top and add a splash of raw apple cider vinegar – to help pull out the marrow. Put the lid back on and leave it on low until the next morning (I usually don’t have time to tend to it until after breakfast).

I turn it off and let it cool for a while, then strain through a mesh strainer into a large glass bowl. I discard all everything that gets strained out and then I strain the liquid once more through a super fine mesh strainer – metal mesh coffee filter set inside the other strainer works perfectly.

I then stick in in the fridge for several hours to let it cool completely – usually until after dinner that night.

This is how it looks when it’s completely chilled before I portion it into my freezer containers.

I then transfer into whatever freezer containers I have available (I have an assortment of glass canning jars and plastic freezer jam jars).

Tip: I move my crock pot into the garage when I’m using it overnight for chicken stock. I simply cannot tolerate waking up to the smell of chicken broth.

Additional note: I buy locally raised, free range whole chickens and I personally know my farmer and her practices. I don’t recommend adding organs (giblets) into your stock if your chicken is not properly raised/fed.

Be sure to visit The Stock Exchange over at Parenting the Tiniest of Miracles for more great recipes and tips for making stock.

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Slow Cooker Navy Bean Soup

Laura — Mon, 23 Jan 2012 03:40:00 +0000

For a while now I’ve been trying to incorporate more beans into our diet as a main protein for one meal each week and have been so happy with this navy bean soup recipe, there was no way I could resist sharing it with you.

I have adapted this recipe to suit our tastes and we think it is SO yummy! My favorite part is how easy it is to put together a nutritious and filling soup for my family.

Slow Cooker Navy Bean Soup

Ingredients

1½ cups navy beans (great northern beans also work wonderfully)
Chicken stock and/or water (I prefer homemade chicken stock)
4 carrots, diced
2 celery stalks, diced
1 medium onion, diced
½ - 1 lb. ham - leftover, works really well
salt and pepper, to taste

Instructions

Soak beans over night, then drain and rinse

Add all ingredients to slow cooker filling to ½" from top with chicken stock or water

Cook on high 4-6 hours or low 8+ hours - check beans every few hours for tenderness

http://homemakingjoyfully.com/2012/01/slow-cooker-navy-bean-soup/

Could it be any easier?

This soup is wonderful served with cornbread or yeast rolls.

This recipe was originally posted in February of 2010.

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Crustless buttermilk pie recipe

Laura — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 03:26:49 +0000

YUM! This is one of the simplest and yummiest desserts, ever!

It came to me via my cousin, Alisa and it’s either our grandmother’s recipe or Alisa’s mom’s (my aunt).

Crustless Buttermilk Pie

Prep Time: 10 minutes

Cook Time: 45 minutes

Total Time: 55 minutes

Ingredients

1/2 stick butter, melted
3 T. flour
2 eggs, beaten
1 cup buttermilk
2 t. vanilla
3/4 cup sugar

Instructions

Preheat oven to 425°

In mixing bowl combine butter and flour. Beat with mixer until well combined.

Add sugar, eggs, milk and vanilla. Mix again until well combined.

Pour into buttered glass pie plate.

Bake at 425° for 10 minutes then reduce heat to 350° and bake an additional 30-35 minutes, until center is just set.

http://homemakingjoyfully.com/2012/01/crustless-buttermilk-pie-recipe/

Enjoy!

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Colored pencil tips

Laura — Wed, 04 Jan 2012 19:24:15 +0000

I’m not sure when I came up with this idea (or even if it was really my idea in the first place), but it has been very helpful for us.

Sharpen both ends.

It’s really quite simple. Though a tad time consuming when it’s time to sharpen, they don’t need to be sharpened nearly as often.

Also, I could not stress enough how much you need an electric pencil sharpener, especially if you have children who are partial to colored pencils or homeschool and your children use pencil for most of their work.

We also store all of our pencils, crayons, and markers in sturdy vinyl zipper top pencil bags. This makes cleanup a snap and easy enough that even the youngest artist can put away their own. Just scoop them into the bag and zip it closed.

This post is linked to Works for Me Wednesday

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Christmas tree photography

Laura — Fri, 23 Dec 2011 21:40:00 +0000

I have read some tutorials lately to help me learn how to take better photos of my Christmas tree – they help with photos of other lights, too – so I decided to share some of my successes with you.

Note: I have had my DSLR for about a year and a half and am by no means anything more than an amateur. I hold no illusions about my ability to teach others anything, but I can follow a tutorial and play around with the settings that work best on my specific camera and lense setup.

All photos were taken with my Nikon D5000 and 18-55mm 1:305-5.6G lense.

These first two photos were taken using this tutorial from August Tea Photography. I found it on Pinterest a couple of weeks ago and have found it incredibly helpful.

Also, it was dark outside, but all the lights (except the one in the entryway behind the tree) were on.

f/4; 1/8 sec.; ISO-800; 22mm; Spot metering

f/6.3; 1/10sec.; ISO-800; 48mm; spot metering

The rest of these photos were taken with the instruction from this tutorial at My Charming Kids.

This time, it was dark outside and all of the lights in the entire house were off (except a nightlight upstairs).

I love the starburst effect in this one.

f/36; 1 second; ISO-Hi1; 42mm; exposure bias +.7 step; pattern metering

The next one is my absolute favorite!

f/5.3; 1/15 sec.; ISO-Hi1; exposure bias +.7 step; 40mm; pattern metering

I get absolutely giddy (ask Michael) when I take photos that truly capture what I was going for. It’s getting more common and I am feeling very pleased with myself. However, it took me about 60 shots to get these 4 that I’m happy with – remember, no illusions that I really know what I’m doing!

* These photos have had no significant editing done to them, I cropped out some junk in a couple of them and resized them to be a blog-appropriate size.

This post is linked to Finer Things Friday and My Charming Kids.

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Homeschool hurdle

Laura — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 06:59:05 +0000

I’m sure at one point or another every homeschool parent has faced some struggles or hurdles. I am currently one of them.

I’m wondering… What (if anything) do you allow your children to do/work on during read aloud time?

I am dealing with two drastically different personalities – both are boys and the younger one is only 5. In a perfect world I would love for them to sit nicely (read ::perfectly still:: – realistic, right!?) on the couch beside me while I read to them. I am, admittedly, a recovering perfectionist. Since we don’t live in a perfect world, I am entertaining thoughts of how to keep them focused. Sitting on the couch with me isn’t working.

My hangup with letting them do something while I’m reading to them is mostly because I’m just not sure how much attention one can pay whilst also thinking about what Lego creation he’s going to make or what color to draw his dinosaur, etc.

Anyone have any advice or first hand experience you’d like to tell me about?

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